Tuesday, January 17, 2017

Pros and cons lists are an important part of any relationship

Reasons why I love Jason and he is the best thing that every happened to me


  • he is kind
  • he is patient
  • he never talks about me or my problems unless he is at breaking point and then only with trusted couel
  • somehow he has only come to the edge of breaking point, after 4 years, 4 admissions to hospital, a baby, several nerverous breakdowns, 15 countries, a weeklong visit from my mum acting at her finest and an overdose or two
  • He smiles when I kiss him
  • he pretends to be grouchy but he sees the sunny side of every day
  • He is a beautiful baby daddy and father and partner to me
  • He kisses me hello when he gets home and good morning to wake me up
  • He has never given me reason to doubt his fidelity or commitment
  • He protects me, from the little things and the big things. Like changing lightbulbs, and walking on th inside of the street and news that would scare me which I don't strictly need to hear
  • I trust him with my life and anyone's life - he would only ever have the right intentions in his heart when he had to make a decision
  • He does the little loving things like making coffee every morning and playing my shower games
  • His blue eyes and smile light up a room
  • He never lies to me or says anything aimed at hurting me unless he is really really stung, which was maybe once in 4 years and not that bad
  • He has gone through hell and back to stay for Matilda and be kind to me and yet he can still laugh with us
  • He calls his family every couple of weeks
  • He doesn't say much but he can go to a party and make heaps of friends
  • He is considerate when he orders, and orders for both of us
  • he works hard, like me and understands working for the satisfaction of quality
  • He is not materialistic or afraid about the future
  • He is generous with his friends and with people he loves
  • He is kind to my mum
  • His soul radiates purity and perfection
  • He holds so much emotion inside, Ive made him cry so many times and he has never lashed out at me, because he is strong, not weak
  • He holds me at my worst and jokes about my foibles and I know that I would do anything I could to give him happiness despite how ill I have been and he waits for me for that.
  • He likes to try new things and is open to experiences, places, foods, sports, adventures.
  • He doesn't see having a hubby as a hindrance but just a new challenge in our adventures.
  • He holds me when I cry
  • He is secretly funny in a discrete British/engineer way
  • He doesn't know how perfect and beautiful he is
  • He is smart and inquisitive and adopts random new interests like 1960s gencocide in Indonesia
  • I see a life with him being a very very happy life full of love and trust and kinds and shared hobbies and adventure.
I believe this list should be balanced: Things that annoy me about jason:



  • when he goes around tidying up before we travel and he chucks out the carrots and cucumbers I have been saving for the trip. He also wants to get to the airport early. 
  • And he doesn't like emo discussions but he will have them when we need them. THATS IT.